Welcome to Chats With Chappy

When you're a first responder, you're trained to show up for everyone else. You answer the call, carry the burden, and keep moving forward, often without taking time to care for yourself.

But even the strongest among us need support.

I'm Chris Cottle, a career firefighter (Driver/Engineer) with more than 20 years in the fire service and the current chaplain for my department. I've witnessed firsthand the challenges that come with this calling. The stress, trauma, burnout, and personal struggles that many first responders face but rarely talk about.

That's why I created Chats With Chappy.

This is a place where first responders and their families can find honest conversations, practical resources, encouragement, and hope. My goal is simple: help break the stigma surrounding mental health and remind those who serve that they don't have to carry the weight alone.

You spend your life helping others. This space was created for you.

Thank you for being here. Take a look around and join us as we build a stronger, healthier first responder community together.